• For Our Daughters
  • Backstabber
    This is a song I wrote from my personal experience with relational aggression.

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  • Double Dragon

    The Double Dragon is an appropriate symbol for the topic of covert aggression and empowerment - two heads coming out of one body.

    For in truth, the dragons exist one within the other, as both aggression and empowerment exist within each person.

    Relational aggression isn't so much about a specific person, a "bitch" we love to hate, as much as a state of mind; a set of choices we all can make.

    The possibility for their manifestation exists in every person. Some people do play the role of aggressor as opposed to target, but to become an aggressor is only a choice away for each one of us.

    Be willing then, to see yourself, if only in potential, in both roles - aggressor and target. Doing so will give you insight and understanding, and with that, true empowerment.

    Demian Yumei,
    ~"DreamSinger"

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Healing Steps 3

Published By Demian Yumei On Monday, November 19th 2007. Under Audio, Demian's Articles, Healing Steps, Songs  Tags: , ,   
Healing Steps 3
Intro to Healing Steps Series Healing Steps 1 Healing Steps 2 Healing doesn’t stand still. With one act of blessing another, in the small drama between two people, the goodwill I felt within my heart with "Dancing Cranes" evolved into "For the Sake of Love". From microcosm to macrocosm, from individual to global, ... Read More

Healing Steps 2

Published By Demian Yumei On Friday, November 16th 2007. Under Audio, Demian's Articles, Healing Steps, Songs    
Healing Steps 2
Intro to Healing Steps Series Healing Steps 1 One of the reasons why we are, often, afraid to look at our anger, is because we think that is all there is. We're afraid if we give voice to our rage, we'll never stop screaming. But that's not true. Step 2: Letting Go Song: ... Read More

Healing Steps 1

Published By Demian Yumei On Thursday, November 15th 2007. Under Audio, Demian's Articles, Healing Steps, Songs    
Healing Steps 1
When you are a target of relational aggression, the last thing the aggressor and her collaborators want you to do is speak out. The first thing you often lose, as a result, is your voice. Step 1: Speaking Your Truth Song: Backstabber (For lyrics and more songs: www.soundclick.com/dreamsinger) ... Read More

It’s My Birthday!

Published By Demian Yumei On Friday, November 2nd 2007. Under Audio, Songs, Updates and Events    
It’s My Birthday!
And since self-esteem is a big part of our discussions, I want to share a song I recently wrote that comes from the pride and joy I feel in being a woman - and that's at any age. So here's my song, a celebration of being an older woman. “No Apologies” Copyright ... Read More