• For Our Daughters
  • Backstabber
    This is a song I wrote from my personal experience with relational aggression.

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  • Double Dragon

    The Double Dragon is an appropriate symbol for the topic of covert aggression and empowerment - two heads coming out of one body.

    For in truth, the dragons exist one within the other, as both aggression and empowerment exist within each person.

    Relational aggression isn't so much about a specific person, a "bitch" we love to hate, as much as a state of mind; a set of choices we all can make.

    The possibility for their manifestation exists in every person. Some people do play the role of aggressor as opposed to target, but to become an aggressor is only a choice away for each one of us.

    Be willing then, to see yourself, if only in potential, in both roles - aggressor and target. Doing so will give you insight and understanding, and with that, true empowerment.

    Demian Yumei,
    ~"DreamSinger"

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Article: Megan Meier – New Law Fatally Misses The Mark

Published By Demian Yumei On Saturday, November 24th 2007. Under Demian's Articles, Megan Meier, Resources, cyber bullying  Tags: , , , ,   
Article: Megan Meier – New Law Fatally Misses The Mark
Well, I stand corrected...to where I edited my previous post. There's a lot of writing on the internet right now concerning the death of Megan Meier - most expressing feelings of anger and frustration. But this article by Danny Vice really adds a great deal to understanding the dynamics of ... Read More

Megan Meier’s Hometown Outlaws Online Bullying

Published By Demian Yumei On Friday, November 23rd 2007. Under Demian's Articles, Megan Meier, Updates and Events  Tags: , , , , , , , , , ,   
Megan Meier’s Hometown Outlaws Online Bullying
An article just "hot off the press" on a British online publication, no less, reports the hometown of Megan Meier, Dardeene Prairie, Missouri, made online harassment illegal. A town where a 13-year-old girl hanged herself after falling victim to a "cyber-bullying" campaign has become the first in America to criminalise internet ... Read More

Blog: Cyber Anthropology – When cyberbullying goes too far…

Published By Demian Yumei On Wednesday, November 21st 2007. Under Demian's Articles, Megan Meier, Resources, cyber bullying  Tags: , , , ,   
Blog: Cyber Anthropology – When cyberbullying goes too far…
(Previous post about Megan Meier here) There's something else you have to read about the family who created the internet hoax for Megan Meier: When cyberbullying goes too far… :: Cyber Anthropology Quote taken from the above blog post: What may be the worst part of it all, after their daughter’s death, ... Read More

Megan Meier

Published By Demian Yumei On Wednesday, November 21st 2007. Under Demian's Articles, Megan Meier, Resources, cyber bullying  Tags: , , , , ,   
Megan Meier
I need to post some more on this story, about the suicide of Megan Meier, because it's so upsetting to me. I had missed it when it happened last year, but it's resurfaced again, and I just need to process this now. Two young girls who used to be best friends ... Read More

Article: ABC News: Family Linked to Girl’s Suicide Harassed

Published By Demian Yumei On Tuesday, November 20th 2007. Under Demian's Articles, Megan Meier, Resources, cyber bullying  Tags: , , , ,   
Article: ABC News: Family Linked to Girl’s Suicide Harassed
I was going to post Healing Steps 4, but wasn't able to get to it today. Instead, I want to post a link to an article I just discovered about the suicide of Megan Meiers, a victim of cyber bullying, instigated not by her peers, but by the mother, Lori ... Read More

Healing Steps 3

Published By Demian Yumei On Monday, November 19th 2007. Under Audio, Demian's Articles, Healing Steps, Songs  Tags: , ,   
Healing Steps 3
Intro to Healing Steps Series Healing Steps 1 Healing Steps 2 Healing doesn’t stand still. With one act of blessing another, in the small drama between two people, the goodwill I felt within my heart with "Dancing Cranes" evolved into "For the Sake of Love". From microcosm to macrocosm, from individual to global, ... Read More

Healing Steps 2

Published By Demian Yumei On Friday, November 16th 2007. Under Audio, Demian's Articles, Healing Steps, Songs    
Healing Steps 2
Intro to Healing Steps Series Healing Steps 1 One of the reasons why we are, often, afraid to look at our anger, is because we think that is all there is. We're afraid if we give voice to our rage, we'll never stop screaming. But that's not true. Step 2: Letting Go Song: ... Read More

Healing Steps 1

Published By Demian Yumei On Thursday, November 15th 2007. Under Audio, Demian's Articles, Healing Steps, Songs    
Healing Steps 1
When you are a target of relational aggression, the last thing the aggressor and her collaborators want you to do is speak out. The first thing you often lose, as a result, is your voice. Step 1: Speaking Your Truth Song: Backstabber (For lyrics and more songs: www.soundclick.com/dreamsinger) ... Read More

What is the Healing Journey?

Published By Demian Yumei On Wednesday, November 14th 2007. Under Demian's Articles, Healing Steps    
What is the Healing Journey?
Intro: What is the healing journey, anyway? The healing journey is open to all, whether we inflict the suffering or endure it. We embark on it through telling ourselves the truth, either our culpability or the suffering we're experiencing, and then choosing to be, at least, willing to live differently. ... Read More

A Worthwhile Endeavor

Published By Demian Yumei On Tuesday, November 13th 2007. Under Demian's Articles, Updates and Events    
A Worthwhile Endeavor
Woo Hoo! I worked on the not-working email feature until 3:30 a.m. and then got up at 6:15 for my job. Tackled it all day today, and I think now, finally, I have it all in order. Didn't have to downgrade, at all. I messed around with two new plugins, ... Read More
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