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  • Backstabber
    This is a song I wrote from my personal experience with relational aggression.

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  • Double Dragon

    The Double Dragon is an appropriate symbol for the topic of covert aggression and empowerment - two heads coming out of one body.

    For in truth, the dragons exist one within the other, as both aggression and empowerment exist within each person.

    Relational aggression isn't so much about a specific person, a "bitch" we love to hate, as much as a state of mind; a set of choices we all can make.

    The possibility for their manifestation exists in every person. Some people do play the role of aggressor as opposed to target, but to become an aggressor is only a choice away for each one of us.

    Be willing then, to see yourself, if only in potential, in both roles - aggressor and target. Doing so will give you insight and understanding, and with that, true empowerment.

    Demian Yumei,
    ~"DreamSinger"

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Video: Women in Art

Published By Demian Yumei On Sunday, July 15th 2007. Under Demian's Articles, Resources    
Video: Women in Art
Well, it should be called European Women in Art, but I found this perception of women through the eyes of various artists over a span of 500 years interesting. What got me was the expression in their eyes and the "smile". 500 years of subtle gentleness and almost imperceptible smiles ... Read More

Article: Cell phone stalking

Published By Demian Yumei On Friday, July 13th 2007. Under Resources, cyber bullying    
Article: Cell phone stalking
An interesting article about cell phone stalking: http://kutv.com/topstories/local_story_120234456.html ... Read More

“You’re not all that”

Published By Demian Yumei On Wednesday, July 11th 2007. Under Demian's Articles    
“You’re not all that”
My daughter and I attended a wedding this past weekend. Lovely painted fans were made available for the guests. It was an outdoor wedding, and the kids had spent most of the time running and playing. Late in the afternoon, Brhiannon approached the bride, after the bride had gotten into ... Read More

Video: Bullied to Death

Published By Demian Yumei On Friday, July 6th 2007. Under Resources    
Video: Bullied to Death
For those who think bullying, in any form, is just a rite of passage... ... Read More

A Declaration

Published By Demian Yumei On Wednesday, July 4th 2007. Under Demian's Articles    
A Declaration
On this day I declare freedom from an inauthentic life. I declare the right to be who I am and the responsibility to be accountable for my actions and speech. I allow myself to be angry, jealous or fearful, addressing these emotions with honesty and finding an appropriate and respectful way ... Read More
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