• For Our Daughters
  • Backstabber
    This is a song I wrote from my personal experience with relational aggression.

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  • Double Dragon

    The Double Dragon is an appropriate symbol for the topic of covert aggression and empowerment - two heads coming out of one body.

    For in truth, the dragons exist one within the other, as both aggression and empowerment exist within each person.

    Relational aggression isn't so much about a specific person, a "bitch" we love to hate, as much as a state of mind; a set of choices we all can make.

    The possibility for their manifestation exists in every person. Some people do play the role of aggressor as opposed to target, but to become an aggressor is only a choice away for each one of us.

    Be willing then, to see yourself, if only in potential, in both roles - aggressor and target. Doing so will give you insight and understanding, and with that, true empowerment.

    Demian Yumei,
    ~"DreamSinger"

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Keeping my perspective

Published By Demian Yumei On Monday, April 16th 2007. Under Demian's Articles    
Keeping my perspective
You know, I went to D.C. for the Cherry Blossom Parade on Saturday, and had a fantastic time with my daughter and good friend. There were so many blessings of the day, but I just had to make note of one of the sweetest blessings, and that is the woman with ... Read More

Why Do We Do This?

Published By Demian Yumei On Sunday, April 15th 2007. Under Demian's Articles    
Why Do We Do This?
Why do we, sometimes, get so desperate for a man or for a man, some specific guy, that we're willing to sacrifice everything for him? Our integrity, our values, our own compass in life? Every direction we go, every friend we make, every social event we strive to be a ... Read More