http://www.relationalaggression.net/blog/2006/02/13/the-disease-to-please/ Sat, 27 Aug 2011 03:41:11 +0000 hourly 1 http://www.relationalaggression.net/blog/2006/02/13/the-disease-to-please/comment-page-1/#comment-9 Demian~DreamSinger Tue, 14 Feb 2006 12:56:24 +0000 http://www.relationalaggression.net/blog/2006/02/13/the-disease-to-please/#comment-9 A rather appropriate post for Valentine's Day, I think. What a great and loving gift to give oneself. "Confident kindness" is a great term and certainly a more empowering alternative to being "doormat nice" or manipulatively nice or the kind of "nice" girls are supposed to be, which in our very effort to protect, gives rise to relational aggression. A rather appropriate post for Valentine’s Day, I think. What a great and loving gift to give oneself. “Confident kindness” is a great term and certainly a more empowering alternative to being “doormat nice” or manipulatively nice or the kind of “nice” girls are supposed to be, which in our very effort to protect, gives rise to relational aggression.

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