• For Our Daughters
  • Backstabber
    This is a song I wrote from my personal experience with relational aggression.

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  • Double Dragon

    The Double Dragon is an appropriate symbol for the topic of covert aggression and empowerment - two heads coming out of one body.

    For in truth, the dragons exist one within the other, as both aggression and empowerment exist within each person.

    Relational aggression isn't so much about a specific person, a "bitch" we love to hate, as much as a state of mind; a set of choices we all can make.

    The possibility for their manifestation exists in every person. Some people do play the role of aggressor as opposed to target, but to become an aggressor is only a choice away for each one of us.

    Be willing then, to see yourself, if only in potential, in both roles - aggressor and target. Doing so will give you insight and understanding, and with that, true empowerment.

    Demian Yumei,
    ~"DreamSinger"

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We Are Not Alone!

Published By Cheryl Dellasega On Friday, October 28th 2005. Under Cheryl Dellasega, Guest Authors    
We Are Not Alone!
I'm amazed at the interest in relational aggression these days--there seems to be a global awareness of the need to find "a better way" of relating to each other. When I first began researching the topic of relational aggression it was remarkable to discover that many early articles and websites on ... Read More

Principle Players

Published By Demian Yumei On Friday, October 28th 2005. Under Demian's Articles    
Principle Players
Excerpt from Where There's Smoke Relational aggressors are those who use a relationship, either theirs or the relationships of other people, as leverage or weapon, to bully, intimidate, control and/or punish another person. The aggressor can be an acquaintance or an old friend. She can be a long-standing enemy or ... Read More