RELATIONAL AGGRESSION and COVERT BULLYING

Archive for October 15th, 2005

A Few Good Women…

Posted in October 15th, 2005

by Cheryl Dellasega in Cheryl Dellasega, Guest Authors

We’ve been talking a lot about things that are wrong with relationships on this blog, but how about the many things that are RIGHT? Isn’t that why we care so much about teaching girls to connect in positive ways?
At the risk of being called sexist (again) I’ll share what I think is special about […]

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For Our Daughters

Backstabber

This is a song I wrote from my personal experience with relational aggression.

Stream Song Broadband
Stream Song Dial Up

The double dragon is an appropriate symbol for the topic of relational aggression and female power - two heads coming out of one body.

For in truth, the dragons exist one within the other, as both aggression and empowerment exist within each person.

Relational aggression isn't so much about a specific person, a "bitch" we love to hate, as much as a state of mind; a set of choices we all can make.

Certainly, aggressors and targets are specific roles that people do play, but the point here is that the possibility for their manifestation exists in every person.

On this healing journey, it is important to remember that the reality of an aggressor is only a choice away for each one of us.

Be willing then, to see yourself, if only in potential, in both roles - aggressor and target. Doing so will give you the blessing of insight and understanding, and with that, true empowerment.

Demian,
~"DreamSinger"