RELATIONAL AGGRESSION and COVERT BULLYING

Archive for September 1st, 2005

www.intheknowzone.com

Posted in September 1st, 2005

According to the site, In the Know Zone is a ” one-stop resource for information on substance abuse, sexual and mental health issues.” Has a pretty decent section on relational aggression. Not in-depth, but provides a good overview and addresses different aspects of relational aggression. And I liked the reference to “Machiavellian” subculture of […]

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For Our Daughters

Backstabber

This is a song I wrote from my personal experience with relational aggression.

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The double dragon is an appropriate symbol for the topic of relational aggression and female power - two heads coming out of one body.

For in truth, the dragons exist one within the other, as both aggression and empowerment exist within each person.

Relational aggression isn't so much about a specific person, a "bitch" we love to hate, as much as a state of mind; a set of choices we all can make.

Certainly, aggressors and targets are specific roles that people do play, but the point here is that the possibility for their manifestation exists in every person.

On this healing journey, it is important to remember that the reality of an aggressor is only a choice away for each one of us.

Be willing then, to see yourself, if only in potential, in both roles - aggressor and target. Doing so will give you the blessing of insight and understanding, and with that, true empowerment.

Demian,
~"DreamSinger"